True friends forever!

You never say good bye to those who are your true forever friends. You don’t feel the need to. If you feel the need to make promises like “We will make sure to meet atleast once a week” or you feel the need to celebrate last day of something with them, then you know it and they know it that you are never going to keep your promises.
There is no such last day for true friends.
True friends dont judge each other.
True friends are those who would laugh at you for something when alone and protect you from being laughed at by others for the same thing.
I was discussing these things with my bestest friend who is all of the above!
What can I say about him!
Every girl knows that he is so handsome and all.. 😛
but what they dont know is how cute he is. And he is such a small adorable child from inside. :-*
The best thing about us is, we both are foodies and eat so much.. :-D:-D:-D and then we convince ourselves that we’ll go to the gym and burn the extra fat!
If I ask him to keep a check on me about my diet. Do you know how he helps me?
“Saloni, chhota wala packet bhi nahi khaayegi?”
And then he’ll find a reason to celebrate and will feed me the pedas!
Damn it Poojan! I gained two kilos because of you! :-@:-P
We can watch FRIENDS together for hours and just keep laughing.
We both laugh at the most serious moments.
We both don’t take life too seriously.
We are like this sizzling brownie that we eat almost every week at ccd.. The combination of hot sizzling brownie( him) with cold vanila ice-cream ( me )! :-D:-D:-D

Thank you Internet !!

Thank you Internet !!.

My conclusion is: all that matters is “I should be happy”

It is not always possible that you can please or impress everybody and make everybody to like you. Whatever you do, it is always going to be likable for some and the opposite for others.

I am or I would say, I was a person who just couldn’t accept the above mentioned fact. Whatever I did, obviously some people liked it and some didn’t. Some complained about me, some appreciated. And no matter how many people may like me, but knowing that just this one person doesn’t would upset me. I would then try and try to change myself so that even that person would like
me. How greedy I was back then! No matter how much i didn’t like changing myself, but I would, simply because I could not stand the fact that how come this person does not like me.

But now, I am proud of myself. I am proud of myself as I am not greedy to earn everybody’s love and attention, as I no more have to force myself to change, to force somebody to like me and I can be just ME. I am just happy with the love that I get from ones who I consider worth in my life. And also more importantly because now I love myself because I am just me and I do only stuff that I like. Not for others. Also it is not possible that even the ones close to you are gonna love everything you do. But again that is normal.

I know it would have been good if I earned everybody’s love but like I said it is practically impossible. And well even if it is possible I am no more greedy. So I am happy as long as I like the way I am.

So my conclusion: is all that matters is “I should be happy.”

Have more reasons to smile. :-)

I remember our teacher teaching us  a fact of life.She told us how her X-students came to meet her and talked about how their life was going fabulous, giving all the credit to her. And that hearing all this made her so happy nd gave her so much satisfaction. But some days later, a boy of our school insulted her just because she punished him, which obviously did hurt her. But then she asked us whether she should be happy about what her X-students told her or sad about what the boy told her. I realized at that moment that this happens with all of us. There are people who make us happy and make us feel good about ourselves and there are people who make us unhappy. The teacher told us that she wouldn’t be unhappy about what the boy told her, infact she would forgive him and cherish the comments that she got from her X-students. The lesson really drilled somewhere in my heart and I follow it. Though the lesson seems obvious but how many of us follow it? Don’t we think at the end of the day “ki yaar aaj isne mujhe yeh bola. Ab dekh mai kya karta/karti hun.” Do not be unhappy because of what someone said to you, instead forgive him/her and cherish the positive comments that you get from your loved ones.  Thus u will have less reasons to be sad and ultimately more reasons to smile. 🙂

“Girls vs boys” an argument that I would never fight over because..

It is no more than 2 months right after our birthday that we start day dreaming about our dresses for our upcoming birthday which is just 10 months away. 😉 Leave the birthday dress , we even start thinking about our wedding dress.We find our dream boyfriend or husband in Armaan and Viraat. We wish that atleast 1 of the 10 moments when the hindi serial hero catches the heroine went true in real life. 😉 We overthink on almost every issue. We take all the possible books and things with us. No matter how hard we try ,it takes just 1 second that we start crying. Why do we cry? Because.. Because.. I cannot think of just one reason.. There are so many. Words hurt us very soon because we listen every word from heart. And that is because we say every word from our heart. We find our happiness in small small things of life. We have sweet and simple ways to cheer ourselves. That is why we do not stay sad for long.

I am not at all saying that boys are total opposite. I mean most of the boys that i’ve met are sweet. 😉 but ofcourse there are some differences between us. As far as I know them they maybe bindaas and all from outside but they are also full of emotions. Often there exists jealousy, envy type emotions among girls which boys are deprived of but if we talk about love life of boys i would like to quote that for a girl whom they seriously like “us bandi ke liye unke emotions bhar bhar ke nikalte hai”. And the “love at first sight” which I have seen only in boys always amuses me. Ofcourse they are “kameene” because this is not true for every girl that they date and have varied intentions for dating them. And this very fact which boys themselves know makes them over protective for their girlfriend, sisters and daughters.

Ofcourse the argument over “girls vs boys” is never ending and that every high school student goes through it but i find it absolutely meaningless because “we ( boys and girls ) cannot live without each other.” 😉 Can we?

Hello wonderful people! :-)

Hey! I am here to share my thoughts. I am keen on getting to know how you people think ,how different or same are you as compared to me! It is my very first blog that am writing ,nd am very excited about this whole idea of blogging,  enabling us to share our lives. And how, though being total strangers at the beginning, who knows we could turn into best friends.. 😉  And for those who are already my best friends, there could be no better way to share our lives, our masti and all, together, with the whole world.. 😀 Right?